Ally Vs Accomplice: Let’s Discuss the Difference

In our previous blog post, we explored the importance of being a good friend to a survivor. Now, let's dive deeper into the concept of being an accomplice.

You may be wondering, what is the difference between an ally and an accomplice?

Some survivors express a preference for having an accomplice over an ally, but understanding the distinction is crucial.

Allyship, as defined by the Anti-oppression Network, is an active, consistent, and arduous practice of unlearning and re-evaluating, in which a person in a position of privilege and power seeks to operate in solidarity with a marginalized group. While allyship is an essential step, it's vital to acknowledge that sometimes being an ally may not be enough or trauma-informed.

Being an accomplice, on the other hand, extends beyond traditional allyship. It calls for active involvement in dismantling systems of oppression and injustice. It goes beyond passive support and solidarity, emphasizing a commitment to action and tangible change.

So, what does it mean to be an accomplice?

Active Participation:

Being an accomplice involves actively participating in efforts to challenge and dismantle oppressive systems. It requires individuals to move beyond passive support and take an active role in advocating for marginalized communities. Accomplices engage in actions and initiatives aimed at promoting equity, justice, and inclusivity.

Centering Marginalized Voices:

Being an accomplice means centering the voices, experiences, and perspectives of marginalized individuals and communities. It requires actively listening to and amplifying their voices, valuing their expertise, and supporting their leadership. Accomplices prioritize creating space for marginalized voices to be heard and validated.

Challenging Privilege and Bias:

Being an accomplice necessitates a deep reflection on one's own privilege and biases. It involves actively challenging and unlearning systems of privilege, examining unconscious biases, and working to dismantle personal and systemic barriers that perpetuate inequality. Accomplices actively seek to educate themselves, confront their privilege, and be accountable for their actions.

Taking Risks and Disrupting Norms:

Accomplices are willing to take risks and disrupt the status quo in pursuit of justice. They challenge oppressive norms and systems, even when it means confronting discomfort and resistance. Accomplices actively confront oppressive behaviors, policies, and practices, striving to create transformative change.

Long-Term Commitment:

Being an accomplice is not a one-time action but a long-term commitment to sustained efforts for social justice. It involves continuous learning, growth, and action. Accomplices recognize that dismantling oppressive systems requires ongoing dedication, resilience, and adaptability.

By becoming an accomplice, you are embracing a remarkable opportunity to effect meaningful change. It is a journey that requires self-reflection, education, and action. At the Organization for Prostitution Survivors (OPS), we applaud and support those who choose to be accomplices in the fight against gender-based violence and exploitation.

Remember, being an accomplice is not just about supporting survivors—it's about actively dismantling the systems that perpetuate their marginalization. Together, we can create a future where every survivor can heal, thrive, and reclaim their power.

At OPS, we offer a comprehensive range of services to support survivors on their journey, including counseling, advocacy, housing assistance, and empowerment programs. We are here for you every step of the way, providing a safe and inclusive space for healing and recovery.

Join us as an accomplice, together we can create a world free from exploitation and violence.